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Do not play with the table utensils or crumble the bread.
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Do not put your elbows on the table, or sit too far back, or lounge
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Do not talk loud or boisterously
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Be cheerful in conduct or conversation
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Never, if possible, cough or sneeze at the table.
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Never tilt back your chair while at the table, or at any other time.
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Do not talk when the mouth is full
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Never make a noise while eating
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Do not open the mouth while chewing, but keep the lips closed. It is not necessary to show people how you masticate your food.
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Never indicate that you notice anything unpleasant in the food.
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Do not break your bread into the soup, nor mix with gravy. It is bad taste to mix food on the plate.
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Never leave the table before the rest of the family or guests, without asking the host or hostess to excuse you.
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Eat soup with the side of the spoon, without noise.
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The fork is used to convey the food to the mouth, except when a spoon is necessary for liquids.
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Raw oysters are eaten with a fork.
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If you wish to be served with more tea or coffee, place your spoon in your saucer.
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Tea or coffee should never be poured into the saucer to cool, but sipped from the cup.
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If a dish is presented to you, serve yourself first and then pass it on.
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Never allow butter, soup or other food to remain on your whiskers
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Never wear gloves at the table, unless your hands are for some special reason unfit to be seen.
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Never, when serving others, overload the plate nor force upon them delicacies which they decline.
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Never make a great display when removing hair, insects or other disagreeable things from your food. Place them quietly under the edge of your plate.
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Eat Cheese with a fork, not a knife
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Ask a servant in a low tone for what you want
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Break your bread, do not cut it.
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Eat fruit with silver knives and forks
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If you prefer, take up asparagus with the fingers. Olives and artichokes are always so eaten
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If a course is set before you that you do not wish, do not touch it.
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It is not your business to reprove the waiter for improper conduct; that belongs to your host.
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A gentleman must help a lady whom he has escorted to the table, to all she wishes; but it is improper for him to offer to help other ladies who have escorts
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Use a napkin only for your mouth. Never use it for your nose, face or forehead.
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It is very rude to pick your teeth at the table. If it becomes necessary to do so, hold your napkin over your mouth.